The holiday season brings with it the joy of giving, and we hope you will join us in sharing that joy by sponsoring a young person through CASA’s Christmas for a Child. Children in foster care often face challenging circumstances, so thoughtful holiday gifts can make a huge difference in their lives. There are a few important factors to consider when selecting presents, as their needs and situations might differ from those of children in traditional family settings.
Here’s a guide to help you make the most of your holiday shopping for kids in foster care.
- Practicality and Usability Matter
Many children in foster care move frequently, and large or bulky items can be difficult to transport. If possible, opt for gifts that are portable, versatile, and useful in different living situations. Items like backpacks, journals, or art supplies can be fun while also serving a practical purpose.
- Avoid Gifts with Potential Emotional Triggers
Kids in foster care have experienced loss, separation, and trauma. While some gifts may seem harmless to most children, they might carry emotional triggers for a young person in foster care. For example, gifts that emphasize family dynamics, such as dolls representing a “traditional” family, or books about parents, could unintentionally bring up painful memories. Instead, opt for neutral or uplifting gifts that can be universally enjoyed.
- Give Personalized Gifts
Children in foster care, like all kids, love to feel special and recognized. Personalized gifts can show them that you put thought into their present. Items like custom backpacks, blankets, or art supplies with their first name on them can go a long way in making them feel valued. Personalized gifts offer a sense of ownership, which can be particularly meaningful for children who may have moved homes frequently.
- Be Sensitive to Their Current Living Situation
Not all foster children are placed in permanent homes. Some may be living in group settings, shelters, or transitional homes. When shopping, keep in mind that certain gifts may be better suited to their current situation. For instance, instead of gifting large electronics, consider giving something that can be easily packed, such as books, board games, or small tech gadgets like earbuds.
- Include Gifts That Foster Connection
Young people in foster care often benefit from gifts that encourage connection and bonding. Group games or activities that they can do with foster siblings, caregivers, or friends can help foster a sense of community. Simple, classic games like Uno, Jenga, or card games can bring people together and create moments of joy.
- Support Emotional Well-being
Children in foster care can benefit greatly from gifts that support their emotional well-being. Books that teach self-esteem, resilience, and mindfulness are great choices. Similarly, items like stress-relief toys, fidget tools, or sensory-friendly gifts can provide comfort and help them manage emotions, especially during times of transition.
- Gift Cards: A Practical and Empowering Option
When in doubt, gift cards are always a thoughtful option. They allow children to pick out something they truly want or need, giving them a sense of empowerment and choice. A gift card to a popular store or online retailer is practical, versatile, and can provide joy long after the holidays are over.
If you would like to learn more about getting involved in celebrating our CASA kids during the holidays, visit https://www.nwacasa.org/donate/casa-christmas-for-a-child-2024/